1. Listen to Your Teen:
Listen or give time to express themselves. Try to Create and maintain a way for open communication with your teen. And This is often, and sometimes the only, step to many of the problems parents face with their teenagers.
Most of the time, teenage problem like body image problem or self esteem problem or any other problems, can be solved easily if the parents are good listener to their child. So work on keeping that door open.
2. Let Your Teen do what they love:
As long as, what a teen is doing is not dangerous, his or her parents should support or motivate ,or at least not discourage, what their teens feels passionate about.
Let them learn something new or improve there skills… This will boost your teens self-esteem.
3. Setting small achievable goals :
Encourage your teen to break their big goals into small achievable goals and to achieve their small goals. tell to Reward themselves, by Listening to a CD or tape or playing games or any other activities your teen likes. This will give him or her sense of achievement and improve their self esteem.
4. Be a Positive Role model
Watch out what you say or do . As you, as parents, are a major influence on your teen’s behavior and self-esteem. So, it is important to be a good role model or have a good self esteem for yourself too.
5. Encourage to Take care of Themselves:
Motivate your teen to Make it a point to treat themselves well every day.
By encouraging them
- to dress in clothes that makes them feel good about themselves.
- Have a nice room for them self by cleaning the rooms , clothes by themselves.
- so on.
That will make them feel good about themselves.
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If you are given a blank paper and a pen and told to write something positive about yourself in short time, will you struggle to bring things to mind or it will be very easy?
- Some people might struggle a lot to bring things to mind. This happens because low self-esteem.
- Some Other people might have less trouble recalling positive things about themselves, but they might feel uncomfortable thinking about, talking about or writing about the positive qualities they have. they might consider it as an arrogant or false pride to show up.
In both cases, they are having problems with their self esteem. But to start acknowledging or remembering our positives, we need to write them down.
Why we need to acknowledge our positives?
As we know, one of the ways to have a good self esteem is to make list of our positive qualities and acknowledge those qualities in our daily life.
Who can be benefited from this positive listing approach?
Anybody can boost his or her self esteem because this approach is very easy to follow. woman, man, aged person, adolescent, young man and women, last but not the least children also can have benefit from this approach.
How to make the list?
Make a list of the positive aspects of yourself, including all your good characteristics, strengths, talents, and achievements, and record them on the worksheet or journal.
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Here is a case study -
Say, john’s friends invites him to participate on their quiz team. and john is feeling very tense about it and it is risk situation for him. he want to develop realastic expectations for this situation like any other person. This is why, he answered the worksheet questions .
Now, may be you have question -why he did this or how he will be able to reduce intensity of the situation read this article first.
Here is a worksheet that john used and you can also have it ..
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Your above printable worksheet (in PDF form )
and John answers of the worksheet questions are -
What is the at- risk situation?
Answer : My friends invited me to be on their team in a quiz night.
What am i expecting? What i am predicting? What do i see happening in this situation? What conclusions am i jumping to?
Answer: I will be no good, i will make them lose i will make a complete fool of myself; everyone will see how dumb i am ; the others will wish i wasn’t on their team.
What is the evidence for my expectations?
Answer: There are times i don’t know the answers to other people’s questions there are times i am not up to speed with the current affairs.
What is the evidence against my expectations?
Answer: I have been able to answer some questions at quiz nights before. I have had experiences where i have known things that other people haven’t.
How likely is it that what i am expecting will actually happen in scale of 0 % to 100%?
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How our negative core beliefs remain alive and active in our day to day life
We already discussed about how our present and past life experiences have big impact on our present self esteem in my another article. And now, here you will know- how our negative core beliefs remain alive and active in our day to day life . and know one of the low self esteem solutions .
Why should you read this article?
Yes, it is might also be discouraging, because unfortunately we cannot change our past.
But the good news is, if you know the details of how things are happening on daily basis, you can work on changing them.You can change the negative views you have developed about yourself.
This means that if you can commit yourself to making the effort in addressing your unhelpful thinking and unhelpful behavior from day to day. Then you will start to see yourself in a better light and treat yourself more kindly. And this way things can be different and you can overcome your low self-esteem.
Hopefully ,our worksheets and articles will help you in this journey.
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